Why I’ve cancelled my wedding 

no more wedding

You may have noticed that I have changed my categories from My Wedding to Pregnancy. This I think is pretty self explanatory but I just thought I would explain why I have replaced it and not just added.

My wedding was booked for the 2nd April 2016 but then I found out I  was pregnant and my EDD is 18th January 2016 so we discussed it loads but came to the conclusion that we cant do both.

How would I try on dresses while pregnant? What if I’m poorly after having the baby and still not up to it by then? And the expense for both would be far too much of a strain on us. So we made the decision to cancel it. Luckily we booked it at a small venue and they gave us back our deposit 🙂

Now we’re unsure what to do. Wait a couple of years after the baby and rebook the wedding and have what I wanted from the start or just do registry office and party either when pregnant or in the autumn of next year?

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Hi, I am a SAHM to 4. Two teens, a preschooler and a baby. This is where I share some of our ups and downs of life.
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2 Responses to Why I’ve cancelled my wedding 

  1. It’s a tough one isn’t it especially with 4 kids to think about. Weddings can be so expensive for one day but at the same time if you’ve dreamt of it for years then it’s lovely to have a big white wedding! I guess it depends on you both and what you want from it xxx

  2. Colette B says:

    I guess it depends what your priorities are. We got married when our middle child was 8 months old and did the full shebang as we had always planned. We organised a Nanny for the kids so that they could come to the ceremony but go home before the wedding breakfast (they were too young, it wasn’t in a hotel for them to be able to go to bed etc and it meant we could all enjoy ourselves without needing to worry).
    It was hugely important to me that we all had the same name by the time Ben was old enough to realise that we didn’t (so by school I guess really).

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